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When I was five I was put in a different school because there was an ESL (English as a Second Language) program there. ” Well, for starters, I was born in Ohio and English was my native tongue.
I was reading novels by kindergarten (totally spelled that wrong the first time, fail) and I prided myself on the fact that I had an extensive vocabulary for a toddler.
They are dating white men, not because they’re inherently better than Asian American men, but because they’re trying to improve their social status by being by a white man’s side. He’s not even as smart / good-looking / tall / handsome/charming as I am. ” Again, there are many other reasons, but these are only a few examples.
After having taught thousands of Asian American guys (and also Asian guys born and raised in other Asian and European countries), I see the same themes come up time and time again.
Your "saddle" is to pawn off all detractors or complaints from Asian men as being "bitter" and "dateless." It’s typical but not surprising.
Six of Asian male friends complain about the situation for Asian men and how Asian women have pretty much shunned them from greener pastures.
They have each, in their minds, made a correlation between the interracial dating disparity, and the other well accepted societal stereotypes of Asian American men (mostly produced by western movies and media).Or how this is going to affect the growth and strength of our community?This gender divide is causing more problems that one can imagine.It wasn’t until later in life I tried to analyze the situation and came to this conclusion: I was put in that program for one reason, I was a shy Asian girl and everyone jumped to the conclusion that I couldn’t speak English.
I know I tend to joke about this story, but there’s a lesson to be learned.I have more shocking news for you; all of them are married or have steady girlfriends. They're concerned for their future children and other single Asian men who are down on their luck and demoralized. When the Chinese first came to this country, we formed our own enclaves and Tongs to protect ourselves from whites.